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Question For The Guys – Help Me Out?

A friend of mine (personal trainer) came to my house this wkend. I knew him 5 yrs. He trained me in the gym off & on for a few months, we lost contact bcz he got his own biz. We went out once, it was obvious he thought I was attractive & once in an email he told me that “back then” he wanted to be my man bcz he likes the way I am with myself & he thinks i’m very attractive – but that he wouldn’t act on the attraction bcz he wanted to stay professional & focus on the routine in the gym. I think too he didn’t want to disrespect me. Neither one of us are involved with anyone now. His fitness biz had a discount rate for clients in Dec. but he extended the discount to ME for GOOD, plus a few FREE in-home sessions, which we started this wkend. When he arrived @ my house we hugged full body but when he left, he turned his body sideways to hug me. Why did he do that? He also didn’t make any “moves” at me. But if he’s attracted to me, why didn’t he make any moves to “get with” & date me?

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  1. That’s how us guys are. If we know you for too long as a friends we are very hessitant of asking you out on a date as “more than friends” when the opportunity finally arrises. You need to initiate the romance with this guy. Ask him out to dinner or a movie but, do not try and surprise him with wine or something when he is coming over for a training session…it could go very badly. Good luck to ya.

    - mjobrien
  2. Don’t play games or guess, just tell him how you feel and that you would like to go out with him. Women always talk about how guys don’t express their feelings, well, what are you expressing?

    - Jon O
  3. because he came over on business, i wouldnt have made any moves either that way. You guys need to go on a real date

  4. Damn you talk a lot….if he’s into you you better grab him….the rest of us are bored..

    - dj
  5. He is still trying to maintain his professional business/client relationship. Good for him.
    You will have to be the one that does the asking. It sounds like he is very professional and doesn’t want a reputation of someone who makes moves on his female client base.

    - Dr Sixpack
  6. i think that you should stop tryin to put out and let the love happen

    - a2z_247
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